Roommates or Soulmates?
"A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences." - Dave Meurer
There is no such thing as a perfect marriage, husband, wife, or anything.
You’re kidding yourself if you think there is.
Like life, marriages are 50/50 - half the time, they are fantastic, and the other half can be a real 💩show.
That’s normal.
𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘵 𝘢 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦.
𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭!
You think 𝐡𝐞’𝐬 the one that needs to change.
He thinks it’s 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
Who’s 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵?
Who’s 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨?
Do you even remember what you’re even arguing about? 🤷🏻♀️
𝐈𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐡𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠.
If you’re ready to quit the shouting matches, have stimulating conversations, and start honoring your marriage again.
𝐈 𝐠𝐨𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
The power to change the dynamic in your relationship lies within you.
And No. I’m not saying to be a doormat.
𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐨.
But I do know how to go from 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴.
𝐁𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞, 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭!
You’re kidding yourself if you think there is.
Like life, marriages are 50/50 - half the time, they are fantastic, and the other half can be a real 💩show.
That’s normal.
𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘵 𝘢 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦.
𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐮𝐭!
You think 𝐡𝐞’𝐬 the one that needs to change.
He thinks it’s 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
Who’s 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵?
Who’s 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨?
Do you even remember what you’re even arguing about? 🤷🏻♀️
𝐈𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐡𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠.
If you’re ready to quit the shouting matches, have stimulating conversations, and start honoring your marriage again.
𝐈 𝐠𝐨𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
The power to change the dynamic in your relationship lies within you.
And No. I’m not saying to be a doormat.
𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐧𝐨.
But I do know how to go from 𝘳𝘰𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴.
𝐁𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞, 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭!
The best relationships are where you both get to show up as 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐬.
❌𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦.
❌𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦.
Just 𝐘𝐎𝐔, the real 𝐘𝐎𝐔, without guilt, shame, regrets, or fear.
A solid marriage results from loving each other unconditionally. It means accepting your partner as is, with all of their perceived flaws.
𝐍𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭.
𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶.
Have grace for them, and they will have grace for you.
❌𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦.
❌𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦.
Just 𝐘𝐎𝐔, the real 𝐘𝐎𝐔, without guilt, shame, regrets, or fear.
A solid marriage results from loving each other unconditionally. It means accepting your partner as is, with all of their perceived flaws.
𝐍𝐨𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭.
𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶.
Have grace for them, and they will have grace for you.
If you are interested in improving your marriage, click here to set up a consult call.
I'd love to help you go from roommates to soulmates!
Jill M. Romig, CPA
Certified Life & Weight Coach
Love, Laugh, and Live Boldly
