Roommates or Soulmates?
"A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences." - Dave Meurer
There is no such thing as a perfect marriage, husband, wife, or anything.
You’re kidding yourself if you think there is.
Like life, marriages are 50/50 - half the time, they are fantastic, and the other half can be a real ๐ฉshow.
That’s normal.
๐๐ถ๐ต ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ’๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ต ๐ข ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ.
๐๐๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ!
You think ๐ก๐’๐ฌ the one that needs to change.
He thinks it’s ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.
Who’s ๐ณ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต?
Who’s ๐ธ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ?
Do you even remember what you’re even arguing about? ๐คท๐ปโ๏ธ
๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ก๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ .
If you’re ready to quit the shouting matches, have stimulating conversations, and start honoring your marriage again.
๐ ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.
The power to change the dynamic in your relationship lies within you.
And No. I’m not saying to be a doormat.
๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ง๐จ.
But I do know how to go from ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด.
๐๐๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐, ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ!
You’re kidding yourself if you think there is.
Like life, marriages are 50/50 - half the time, they are fantastic, and the other half can be a real ๐ฉshow.
That’s normal.
๐๐ถ๐ต ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ’๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ต ๐ข ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ.
๐๐๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ!
You think ๐ก๐’๐ฌ the one that needs to change.
He thinks it’s ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.
Who’s ๐ณ๐ช๐จ๐ฉ๐ต?
Who’s ๐ธ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ?
Do you even remember what you’re even arguing about? ๐คท๐ปโ๏ธ
๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ก๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ .
If you’re ready to quit the shouting matches, have stimulating conversations, and start honoring your marriage again.
๐ ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ.
The power to change the dynamic in your relationship lies within you.
And No. I’m not saying to be a doormat.
๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ง๐จ.
But I do know how to go from ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด.
๐๐๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐, ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ!
The best relationships are where you both get to show up as ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ฏ๐๐ฌ.
โ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ.
โ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ.
Just ๐๐๐, the real ๐๐๐, without guilt, shame, regrets, or fear.
A solid marriage results from loving each other unconditionally. It means accepting your partner as is, with all of their perceived flaws.
๐๐จ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ญ.
๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ.
Have grace for them, and they will have grace for you.
โ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ.
โ๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต๐ด ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ.
Just ๐๐๐, the real ๐๐๐, without guilt, shame, regrets, or fear.
A solid marriage results from loving each other unconditionally. It means accepting your partner as is, with all of their perceived flaws.
๐๐จ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ญ.
๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ.
Have grace for them, and they will have grace for you.
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I'd love to help you go from roommates to soulmates!
Jill M. Romig, CPA
Certified Life & Weight Coach
Love, Laugh, and Live Boldly
